Roadblocks to Forgiveness | LoveAndLifeToolBox


Richard Nicastro, Phd, takes a closer look at some of the obstacles to forgiveness in intimate relationships.  

Imagine this scenario:

Your spouse/partner has wounded you in some way. S/he has now expressed what feels like genuine remorse to you. Maybe you’ve even said you accept the apology you were offered, but now you’re wondering whether that was just lip service, because you don’t feel forgiving at all. Quite the contrary. You feel frozen in an anti-forgiveness stance.

However, you really and truly want to forgive. You don’t think your partner is going to repeat the behavior that caused the hurt. You know that forgiveness is good for you, that holding onto resentment will ultimately rob you of peace.

And yet, you can’t forgive him/her. Why?

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