Infidelity in a close relationship can be devastating because it’s an extreme betrayal. Your partner doesn’t make your feelings a priority. His secret behavior appears to be more important than you. Everything you thought about your love story falls apart.
Blaming Yourself Is Self-Destructive and Unfair
If your partner has cheated on you, you’re possibly blaming yourself for not being pretty or smart enough. Any insecurities you have about yourself can be worsened by a cheating partner. When dealing with such strong emotions, you might not make rational decisions anymore.
You might end your relationship then and there because infidelity just doesn’t work for you. Or maybe you decide to hang on, hoping that you can change him. Whatever your reaction, don’t forget that healing takes time. Before making big decisions, take a step…